Breakup

Well, I had my first breakup today. Ever since I got into the game a little over two years ago, I haven’t really needed to breakup with any of the girls that I was seeing, mostly because I kept the relationships at a very casual level so I could improve my skills with women, and [...]

I Love You Man

I just saw the movie “I Love You Man”, and it was surprisingly good.  I haven’t laughed so hard in a movie theater in quite some time. The movie’s main plot revolves around a guy who’s getting married, who has a lot of female friends, but not a lot of guy friends, who goes out [...]

Pickup Podcast Episode #76

Another year, another new podcast from the folks over at Pickup Podcast. Episode #76 was an interview with Jeremy, aka LondonSoul from Love Systems.  I thought the interview was so-so, maybe a 3 out of 5 stars.  Don’t get me wrong, it wasn’t a bad interview, there just wasn’t anything ground-breaking or particularly helpful that [...]

Chief’s Workshop

So I attended a 2-day long PUA workshop up in Palo Alto this past weekend. The workshop was held by Chief, who I’d never heard about before, but I stumbled across a post of his on the SF Lair, and decided to give it a shot. I figured for $40 for a 2-day event, I [...]

Mutual Attraction

Have you ever noticed how the women that you are the most attracted to seem to respond the best to you? I think I read an article a few years ago on some dating site that cited some biological reason for us being attracted the most to the women who also find us attractive, and [...]

Overcoming Heartbreak

Recently, a friend of mine went through a rough emotional experience with a girl he had developed strong feelings for, who in turn LJBF’d him.  I can totally understand what he is going through, because I’ve gone through the same experience myself, and it was one such experience that actually got me into the game. [...]

Approach Challenge Update

So I want to publicly announce that the approach challenge has not been going well for me at all.  I’ve done a few approaches here and there, but they’ve grown less and less frequent as the days have gone by.  I feel like I have few problems approaching women in social situations, but approaching a [...]

Pickup Podcast Epdisode 73

I listened to the latest episodes of pickup podcast today, which features an interview with Mehow.  It’s a solid two part episode, and I actually listened to the whole thing twice during my workout. One of the things that Mehow mentioned in the interview that I found interesting was that he argues that the best [...]

Meeting Reflections – 10/13/08

I met with my Mastermind Group the other day, where we reviewed our goals in the areas of health, wealth, and relationships.  It was helpful to share those again with the group, and was interesting seeing how many of the goals of our group members are pretty similar, which I suppose makes for a good [...]

Approach Challenge – Day 5

I went shopping for clothes today at the mall, but ended up not doing any approaches beyond flirting with some hired guns.  There is just something about shopping that is just exhausting to me.  Lame excuse, I know.  I will do two approaches tomorrow to make up for today.